Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Thursday, 24 December 2015

May it be a Thankful Christmas

Hmmm... It's that time of the year again,ain't it? The last few days of the year where we are all gung ho about sharing and caring and giving and living in the spirit of the season. This is the time we reflect on all the good things the year has given us and possibly tide over and brush aside the bad. Focus on the good and box up the bad. Of course we will take it out again (you know... these ‘bad or negative things’ in a couple of weeks time, once the Christmas euphoria has settled and we all once again become our actual ungrateful selves.

Sadly though the intent for goodness, positivity and cheer is there it is short lived and we very soon forget all the things we really should be thankful for.

Our families we have to love, to have those petty fights with, who irritate us, but also love us back mostly unconditionally, our rock against which we lean at times when its difficult to stand, through thick and thin.

Our friends, who we laugh with, sometimes fight with, always bug, bother and even bullshit with, they are our home away from home, who will stand by with us through sick and sin.

Our jobs and colleagues, without which and who there would be no presents under the tree, no stress or the biggest cause of our angst, yet they too come through for us when we need them.

All those people to whom we say hi to everyday the security guards at our home, office or even at malls, servers at restaurants, those dudes at the petrol pumps, cleaning ladies and gents, even with just a smile they make a difference.

The air we breathe, water and food, so many things to be grateful for.

So here is a big thank you to all of you, for the roles you play in my life. Be it just a hi hello friend or a Facebook contact or family or a friend I am grateful you are in my life. Thank you for being here in this world at this moment with me.

May you all be infinitely blessed with love and happiness.

Wednesday, 24 December 2014

What have you given this Christmas

Chirstmas! A time for giving! In today's materialistic and largely selfish world we miss out on the true essence of what Christmas is. If we were to look back on 2014 and think what have we given, not material things mind you, not that expensive perfume we gave that colleague after thinking 10 times and bargaining a hundred, or the dinner treat for that promotion. Those are easy! What have we really given? 


Did we see that beggar on the road and notice that we didn't have coins so ignored him 
There was a friend who needed a shoulder, but we were too burdened by our own troubles that we turned a deaf ear to them 
The colleague in the office who asked to assist, but we were too busy or just didn't want to
Someone who asked us to forward a CV, but we didn't because we didn't want to recommend 
Have you been there for your friend during their rough times, when life was tough on you 

Real giving is not when we give something that can be replenished or taken back. Time, love, effort... How much of this have we given? We often are selfish when it comes to ourselves we don't want to give a lot of ourselves, it's easier to give money or whatever money can translate to. Mind you there are those who would rather not part with that also. The true essence of giving is when we give our time, our love and our effort when we have none to give or very little to spare. Mind you this does not mean that we do not give when we have plenty of it, just that there is much more meaning to the giving of it is given when it is needed rather than when it is convenient for us. On that very thoughtful note... Wish each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas, may this one be one that is abundantly filled with lots of love, joy, laughter and peace. 

Ps. I am open to receiving gifts even if they are thought of 10 times and bargained for a hundred. Since you have done that they better be good. Bring em on!!!!! Espescially ones like this one 

Merry Christmas All! Happy giving.... Muah!